umm excuse me i am also on rym almost every day HAHA so it does not make you a loser at all!! i honestly do all my music searching there too + a bit of lurking on aoty but i don't even have an aoty account... i agree that the userbase can be a lot but it's generally fine if you know to keep out of certain comment boxes and mind your own business, and unfortunately my taste aligns a lot with the general consensus on that site so i'm willing to put up with it... love your music taste so much so i will be trawling through your ratings a bit ❤️